This gentle thingy

Sometimes hor, I wonder how girls can be soooo gentle.. that when they talk it's like whispering.. when they laugh, it's not so 'over'.. Cause when I talk it's like the whole earth shakes.. and when I laugh I cannot just open my mouth and laugh... I need to clap my hands and stomp my feet too!!! It's sooo funny that my body needs to take part as well! I wonder how they keep themselves so gentle and composed all the time..
what a mystery!!